Sometimes it’s hard to make friends in a new city. Sometimes I think, why’s nobody asking me to lunch? I start to think: What have I done wrong? Does nobody like me?
Then I realize other people are thinking the same thing. So I ask someone out to lunch.
You get out what you put in. If you’re not getting enough, stop thinking about how to get more. Instead, put in more. Give more. It will come back to you.